E30: Ask Shelby: How Do I Make a Big Decision While Grieving?
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E30: Ask Shelby: How Do I Make a Big Decision While Grieving?

Making a major choice after loss can feel impossible. Grief scrambles your brain and makes every option feel like the wrong one. I’ll share some grounded tools to help you weigh options, consider best- and worst-case scenarios, and make compassionate choices you can trust.

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E27: What Is “Meta Grief”? A New Term for Grief Exhaustion, Burnout, and Being Tired of Grieving
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E27: What Is “Meta Grief”? A New Term for Grief Exhaustion, Burnout, and Being Tired of Grieving

Have you ever felt like you're grieving not just a loss, but grieving grief itself? In this episode, I introduce the term “meta grief”—the invisible sorrow that comes from being tired of grieving, worn down by ongoing tragedy, or overwhelmed by the endlessness of loss. If you’ve felt grief fatigue or wondered how long this will last, this episode is for you.

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E26: 6 Grief Metaphors That Finally Put Words to What You’re Feeling
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E26: 6 Grief Metaphors That Finally Put Words to What You’re Feeling

Sometimes grief is too big for plain language. I’m sharing six powerful grief metaphors—from the “Ball in the Box” to “grief butter” to my own “dressing room”—that give shape and words to what life after loss feels like. These images can help you explain your grief, validate your experience, and feel a little more understood.

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