E67: Supporting Someone #11: Grief Changes Your Friendships. 8 Reasons Why Relationships Fall Apart After Loss

Grief doesn't just change you—it changes your friendships too. Today, I'm outlining eight common reasons relationships fracture after loss, plus how to renegotiate connections so they can hold both you and your grief. And, if you’re a supporter, I’ll share easy, actionable ways to show up without your grieving friend having to reach out first.

You'll learn:

  • Why loss creates a gap between grievers and the people who haven't experienced loss yet

  • How the "Hidden Grief Clock" and grief comparison quietly strain relationships

  • Why it's usually up to grievers to teach others how to show up for them

  • How to start setting boundaries and asking for the support you actually need

  • What it looks like to be a good friend to someone who's grieving

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E67: Supporting Someone #11: Grief Changes Your Friendships. 8 Reasons Why Relationships Fall Apart
Shelby Forsythia, Grief Coach and Author

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Shelby Forsythia

Shelby Forsythia (she/her) is a grief coach, author, and podcast host. In 2020, she founded Life After Loss Academy, an online course and community that has helped dozens of grievers grow and find their way after death, divorce, diagnosis, and other major life transitions.

Following her mother’s death in 2013, Shelby began calling herself a “student of grief” and now devotes her days to reading, writing, and speaking about loss. Through a combination of mindfulness tools and intuitive, open-ended questions, she guides her clients to welcome grief as a teacher and create meaningful lives that honor and include the heartbreaks they’ve faced. Her work has been featured in Huffington Post, Bustle, and The Oprah Magazine.

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