If you’re grieving but the tears won’t come, this episode is for you. You’ll learn five reasons you might not be crying—even if you feel heartbroken. Whether you’re numb, overwhelmed, or just not a crier, this conversation will help you better understand your grief.

You got through the first year of grief—but year two feels heavier, not lighter. Today, I’m sharing why grief often gets harder after the first year, what no one tells you about the second year of loss, and why struggling now doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong.

Struggling with sleep after a loss? This episode explores how grief disrupts your ability to fall asleep—or makes you want to sleep all the time.

If you want to know how to support a grieving friend without saying the wrong thing—or disappearing altogether—you are not alone. In this “Ask Shelby” episode, I share practical, compassionate guidance for what to say to someone grieving, using words that actually help in the days, months, and years after loss.

What do you do with a person’s things after they die? Charlene Lam joins me to explore “the stuff of grief”—and how curating can become a meaningful, healing practice. We talk about her 3-step method, the roles objects play in grief, and why you may be more of a curator than you think.

“Time heals all” is one of the most commonly repeated phrases in grief support—but is it actually helpful? Discover the history behind this platitude, why it often causes more harm than good, and what actually supports healing after loss.

If you’ve ever felt broken, lost, or completely alone in your grief, this episode is for you. I’m sharing 15 short, nonreligious affirmations that have brought me comfort and a sense of stability in grief’s hardest moments—along with insights from my students inside Life After Loss Academy.