E65: How to Have Conversations About Death, Dementia, and End-of-Life Wishes with Lisa Pahl, Owner of The Death Deck

Talking about death, dementia, and end-of-life wishes can feel impossible, until you have the right tools to start. Today I'm joined by Lisa Pahl, owner and co-creator of the Death Deck, the End of Life Deck, and the Dementia Deck, to talk about why these conversations matter and how to actually start having them with the people you love.

You'll learn:

  • Why avoiding hard conversations about death and dying doesn't mean you've failed

  • How to introduce a hard topic to family or friends who typically avoid it

  • What questions can help you understand what someone would want at the end of their life

  • Why the person you'd trust most with your final wishes might not be who you expect

  • How identifying as a learner, not an expert, can change the way you approach grief and death

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E65: How to Have Conversations About Death, Dementia, and End-of-Life Wishes with Lisa Pahl, Owner o
Shelby Forsythia, Grief Coach and Author

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Shelby Forsythia

Shelby Forsythia (she/her) is a grief coach, author, and podcast host. In 2020, she founded Life After Loss Academy, an online course and community that has helped dozens of grievers grow and find their way after death, divorce, diagnosis, and other major life transitions.

Following her mother’s death in 2013, Shelby began calling herself a “student of grief” and now devotes her days to reading, writing, and speaking about loss. Through a combination of mindfulness tools and intuitive, open-ended questions, she guides her clients to welcome grief as a teacher and create meaningful lives that honor and include the heartbreaks they’ve faced. Her work has been featured in Huffington Post, Bustle, and The Oprah Magazine.

https://www.shelbyforsythia.com
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