E68: Ask Shelby: How Do I Find Meaning and Purpose Again After Loss? A Tool to Help You Begin

Loss can shake your entire sense of meaning and purpose—especially when the identity, role, or "why" that used to get you up in the morning morning is gone. Today I'm answering a griever's question about finding purpose again after loss and sharing a simple tool for experimenting with new meaning without any pressure to get it right.

You'll learn:

  • Why loss changes your relationship with meaning and purpose, not just your daily life

  • A helpful "maybe and perhaps" tool for experimenting with new meanings without committing to them

  • Why meaning after loss can be good, bad, or neutral—and why all three are normal

  • Why believing you manifested your loss isn't true, and where that belief comes from

  • Why no one else, no matter how well-meaning, can make meaning for you

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E68: Ask Shelby: How Do I Find Meaning and Purpose Again After Loss? A Tool to Help You Begin
Shelby Forsythia, Grief Coach and Author

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Shelby Forsythia

Shelby Forsythia (she/her) is a grief coach, author, and podcast host. In 2020, she founded Life After Loss Academy, an online course and community that has helped dozens of grievers grow and find their way after death, divorce, diagnosis, and other major life transitions.

Following her mother’s death in 2013, Shelby began calling herself a “student of grief” and now devotes her days to reading, writing, and speaking about loss. Through a combination of mindfulness tools and intuitive, open-ended questions, she guides her clients to welcome grief as a teacher and create meaningful lives that honor and include the heartbreaks they’ve faced. Her work has been featured in Huffington Post, Bustle, and The Oprah Magazine.

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