What to Keep After Someone Dies: How to Sort Through the (Literal) Stuff of Grief
How do you decide what do you keep after someone dies? Learn how grief turns ordinary belongings into sacred objects, explore Charlene Lam’s Three C’s of “Curating Grief,” and discover a compassionate, intentional way to sort through the literal stuff of grief.
Why “Time Heals All” Is a Myth—and What Actually Helps Grievers Heal
Grieving people know “time heals all” is a lie. Learn the ancient history of this phrase, why it harms more than it helps, and what actually supports real healing after loss—plus what to say instead.
10 Comforting Activities for Grief That Are Free or Low-Cost
Grief is heavy, but support doesn’t have to be expensive. Discover 10 free or low-cost activities—like walking, playing music, journaling, and spending time in nature—that support emotional healing and bring relief, grounding, and connection after loss.
“Don’t Speak Ill of the Dead” Is B.S.—And It’s Time We Talk About Why
“Never speak ill of the dead” is harmful advice that protects abusers and silences grievers. It’s time we stop rewriting history just because someone died—and start telling the whole truth, even when it’s messy, complicated, or deeply uncomfortable.
How to Grieve When No One Will Talk About It (Or Wants to Hear About It)
When no one will talk about your loss—or wants to hear about your grief—you can still process, remember, and heal. Explore why silence happens, how to grieve on your own, and where to find affordable, grief-inclusive community when you’re ready to connect.
Feeling Hopeless? 8 Small but Helpful Ways to Make Grief a Tiny Bit Easier
When grief leaves you hollow, hopeless, and overwhelmed, you don’t need advice—you need something to hold on to. These 8 gentle grief practices offer small anchors: tiny shifts, odd comforts, and low-effort ways to stay afloat when everything feels like too much.
Every Gain Includes Loss: The Hidden Grief of Growth, Success, Achievement, and New Beginnings
Success, accomplishment, and growth often bring hidden grief. “Gain grief” refers to the quiet losses beneath positive life transitions—like graduation, marriage, a promotion, or having a baby—and offers a compassionate lens for naming and navigating grief in all its forms.