What to Say to Someone Grieving: Three Phrases That Actually Help Whether It’s Been Days, Months, or Years Since the Loss
Not sure what to say to someone grieving a loss? This compassionate guide shares words to comfort someone grieving—plus examples for cards, texts, and long-term support—so you can show up with care and confidence.
Why “Time Heals All” Is a Myth—and What Actually Helps Grievers Heal
Grieving people know “time heals all” is a lie. Learn the ancient history of this phrase, why it harms more than it helps, and what actually supports real healing after loss—plus what to say instead.
How to Answer “How Are You?” in Grief: 20 Truthful, Boundaried, and Protective Options
Grief makes even small talk feel massive. Discover 20 thoughtful ways to answer “How are you?”—from full-truth invitations to polite deflections—so you can honor your grief, protect your energy, and respond in a way that feels right for you, moment to moment.
“Don’t Speak Ill of the Dead” Is B.S.—And It’s Time We Talk About Why
“Never speak ill of the dead” is harmful advice that protects abusers and silences grievers. It’s time we stop rewriting history just because someone died—and start telling the whole truth, even when it’s messy, complicated, or deeply uncomfortable.
3 Painful Beliefs Grieving People Carry—And How You Can Support Them Through Loss
Discover the three painful beliefs grieving people often tell themselves—and learn how to respond with language that brings true comfort instead of clichés. A must-read for anyone who wants to support a grieving friend, partner, family member, or client with more skill and heart.
12 Simple Texts That Actually Help Someone Grieving—Especially Around the Holidays
Not sure what to say to someone grieving during the holidays? This blog offers 12 comforting text messages that provide real support without clichés. Learn what to say to someone grieving and how to gently show up for holiday grief with care, compassion, and presence.
How to Make a Big Decision While Grieving: Navigating Grief and Decision Making After a Loss
Struggling to make decisions after a death or loss? This guide offers practical tools for grief and decision-making—so you can avoid bad decisions, gain clarity, and make compassionate choices for your future.