How to Answer “How Are You?” in Grief: 20 Truthful, Boundaried, and Protective Options
Grief makes even small talk feel massive. Discover 20 thoughtful ways to answer “How are you?”—from full-truth invitations to polite deflections—so you can honor your grief, protect your energy, and respond in a way that feels right for you, moment to moment.
“Don’t Speak Ill of the Dead” Is B.S.—And It’s Time We Talk About Why
“Never speak ill of the dead” is harmful advice that protects abusers and silences grievers. It’s time we stop rewriting history just because someone died—and start telling the whole truth, even when it’s messy, complicated, or deeply uncomfortable.
3 Painful Beliefs Grieving People Carry—And How You Can Support Them Through Loss
Discover the three painful beliefs grieving people often tell themselves—and learn how to respond with language that brings true comfort instead of clichés. A must-read for anyone who wants to support a grieving friend, partner, family member, or client with more skill and heart.
12 Simple Texts That Actually Help Someone Grieving—Especially Around the Holidays
Not sure what to say to someone grieving during the holidays? This blog offers 12 comforting text messages that provide real support without clichés. Learn what to say to someone grieving and how to gently show up for holiday grief with care, compassion, and presence.
How to Make a Big Decision While Grieving: Navigating Grief and Decision Making After a Loss
Struggling to make decisions after a death or loss? This guide offers practical tools for grief and decision-making—so you can avoid bad decisions, gain clarity, and make compassionate choices for your future.
What is “Meta Grief”? Navigating Grief Fatigue, Grief Exhaustion, and the Toll of Ongoing Tragedy
Feeling exhausted by constant loss? This blog explores the concept of “meta grief”—the grief you feel about the fact that you're grieving—and offers language for navigating grief fatigue, emotional burnout, and the toll of ongoing personal and collective tragedy.
6 Powerful Grief Metaphors That Help You Make Sense of Life After Loss
Grief can feel impossible to explain. These 6 powerful grief metaphors and illustrations give shape and language to loss, helping you translate overwhelming emotions into imagery that makes sense of life after loss.